NO Fluffy Stuff
Yeah, yeah, yeah, “winged, double-bodied, harvest Maiden, angel caught in the material form”, right, but there is so much to do!!! OMG, I need a plan, I need to sort out this massive heap and make sense of this all. As long as I get organized, I find a way. Let’s go!
WAIT - what’s this? LOVE?! I don’t have time for this nonsense in the first place. Hmmm, all right, all right, maybe I can work this out, make it manageable somehow. Ok, he seems reasonable - maybe we can give it a try. We just need to make sure we don’t get out of control here. That's the last thing I need right now.
He “enjoys our time together”, hmmm, interesting, he “loves me” - that’s nice. He “needs more affection”, “I seem a bit uptight”. What does he mean?! Let’s just be real here for a moment.
I sacrifice ALL this time that I could spend doing LOT more useful stuff, knocking things off my to-do list (YES!) than walking around, holding hands. This is waayyy out of my comfort zone already.
We need to take this down a notch and bring it down to earth. OK, first of all, we don’t need all this fluffy stuff. What’s that all about? Such a waste of time. We need to make our time spent together more productive.
There is nothing wrong with running a few errands together, right? Now that’s an idea! Well, he wants me more relaxed and what can be more satisfying than crossing off items from my to-do list? That could relax me a bit.
But still that love thing. He didn’t explain why he loves me in the first place so what’s the point? I don’t understand it! Not sure how useful that is. If he saw my master pros and cons list, I’ve made for him! I’m sure he’d really appreciate all the time I’ve invested in our relationship. Now that’s a real value!
Maybe I should just share the template with him so that he can make one for me and then we can just exchange the notes and work on our weak spots. Now that could be FUN!
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Ha ha, sorry about this caricature of the Virgo archetype, I love Virgos and Virgo is a beautiful sign (I am one :-)). Though I don’t have Virgo Venus, I am very much guilty of all these things listed above in different areas of my life.
The sign of Virgo holds so much tension. I love laughing at myself and I really wanted to lighten up the ingress of Venus into the sign of her fall that she has entered today.
Keep hope alive, keep dreaming.
Petra

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